guys, would you date someone who has had top surgery?

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1. Never done it, but I don’t think it would be a deal breaker for me as long as the woman still gave off feminine vibes, whether in appearance or personality. If I had an existing long term partner, it would be even less of a big deal.

   I don’t know if I could be with a woman like that, who is super insecure about it themselves. Such as if they are so self conscious about it that they need beyond constant reassurance and starts fights over not believing me about my opinions. My peace is now too valuable to try to heal people I have no history with.

2. It depends what the reason was for.

   It’s they were so huge that it was causing back issues and it was just a reduction, then that’s fine. If it was removal because of cancer or something, then I’d probably be okay with it, but I’m not sure. I can’t really think of another reason I’d be okay with though, but that’s just my preference.

3. I dated someone who had top surgery, no problem at all.

   It wasn’t a big deal, I can’t say if I found it in particular attractive or not. If I genuinely like the person, I’ll find all of them attractive.

4. As a feminine female it doesn’t bother me

5. I didn’t have top surgery, but I did have a breast reduction and have similar scarring and honestly…. no one gives a shit about them.

6. Wtf is top surgery. Stop changing words. You mean a boob job? Men love that shit

7. I would date a ciswoman who has had top surgery. That obviously wouldn’t be the first thing I noticed. As a lesbian I enjoy cisgender women of all shapes and sizes. Xoxo. I also had a brest reduction and have some markings from that journey I’m self conscious about.