Work from home. Just returned from a work trip where I met all my coworkers. Does anyone else ALWAYS feel like the odd man out in social situations? I always feel weird & awkward. No one ever gravitates to me. I hate living this life. I’m kind and inclusive so I don’t understand what’s wrong with me. My BF says it’s because I’m trying too hard. If I didn’t GAF, it would be different. I just always feel like I don’t belong and people think I’m weird. How do others deal with that and live happily?
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I just hang around and watch people interact. Interject some witty commentary or bit of knowledge here and there to slowly integrate. I also don’t give too many shits or stress about being the weird silent woman just sitting and judging everyone or something.
This sort of falls into the category of why people don’t pick you even though you’re nice. This usually boils down to the vibe people feel coming from you. Here’s an article I wrote that can help:
###[Do YOU Have Good Friendship Traits?](https://www.reddit.com/r/CPRForYourSocialLife/comments/13jp5gv/pick_me_do_you_have_good_friendship_traits/)