So I met one beautiful girl online (22) and I am (26M), we followed each other on insta , talked , initially flirted a little as well , we were constantly taking for 4 months, and she knows I was highly interested in her, she even added me to her close friend list on insta , and she took my chats ss couple of times and share over her stories with hearts and kisses, but whenever I asked her out she said she have exams coming for which she was preparing , so I respect her boundaries and gave her time as she once mentioned that she need time to get to know someone, she agreed multiple times to meet me after exams,she even told me that she don’t have anyone else in line, and only had one person she liked before but fallen apart, but one day I wake up and saw her close friends story in which she mentioned one guy for the first time and said that she loves him, my whole world shattered l tried to contact her but she never picked up , so I reacher her office and confronted her , she told me she never liked me ever, and she knows this guy for aa long time but she never showed that she loved him and he never showed the same , but now they both accepted each other and Love each other and are together , it broke my heart in million pieces, I asked her to be atleast friends as I am in love with her she refused and also called Me moron for coming to meet her and told me to never to do this for anyone else ever, she blocked me initially but after asking she unblocked me but didn’t accepted my request, but later that night she did accepted my req but never followed back , I have been keep on sending her texts but she rarely replies now , but she sees every text , so I decided not to text her as she said if she will reply then I won’t be able to move on , but the very next day she texted me asking for help to refer her in one of the MNC I work with , I agreed but when I did she said she have given the email to which lost access and now can’t access and also asked my help to change it and refer again , I don’t know what to do , also she now replies only when it’s for her benefit otherwise left me on seen, what should I do as I love her very much.
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no dude move on please. for your sake, move on. she does not respect you at all.
you do not deserve this disrespect. you need to love YOURSELF. not her. she isn’t deserving of your love: i’m sorry if this sounds harsh but please ask yourself why you love her. and why are you accepting this disrespect?
She liked the attention you gave her & guess what if this relationship fails you’ll just be plan b, she only accepted you because of the attention she’s been receiving from you, you need to block her and detach, no human deserves to be said these ugly things
Dude wake up. This girl wants nothing to do with you. You are “in love” with a fantasy. She’s made it pretty clear she wants nothing to do with you, at this point you’re just being creepy.
She told you she’s not interested. Quit stalking her and start pursuing other women.
Dude, you are acting in very creepy ways to the point of harassment.
Move on, man. You are gonna get into legal trouble any day and all those texts you send her will serve as proof if she takes you to the courts.
Not everyone you like will like you back, that is something you will have to accept. This girl is definitely not dating you ever, specially after all this creepy behaviour.
This behaviour you display isn’t love, this is aggression.
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And you will get her to love you back