Whenever we have foreplay I feel like I want to just rush to the penetration. It’s my absolute favourite thing. I feel like the penetration is so lovely and intimate and I feel like it’s a super cuddle and I feel so connected to my fiancé. I absolutely love penetration and don’t mind quickies where it’s just penetration. I do cum from oral and from fingering and enjoy it too, just not as much as penetration… I also cum from penetration especially when my fiancé cums in me.
Is anyone else like this? I feel weird because as a woman I am expected to just want foreplay but I really just enjoy penetration and could deal with just that instead of any foreplay. When foreplay goes on for a long while I feel like I get bored, even though I do cum from it, it just doesn’t feel as intimate as penetration.
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My wife is also like this. I love foreplay and I’m happy to spend a long time doing it, but penetration is where it’s at for her and she just wants to get right to it even if we are going to be having sex for a while and go for a few rounds. I’ve talked to her a lot about it over the years and that’s just what she likes most, so that’s what we mostly do and she seems very happy.
My feeling is that this is unusual for women but not unheard of. There’s a decent size minority of women who both orgasm from penetration reliably, and prioritize it over foreplay. But I don’t know what size that minority is. Totally normal though.
My partner is like this. She needs penetrative orgasms to finish. Oral just makes her more horny, regardless of how many orgasms she has. If she’s taking charge, she almost always skips oral for PIV.
Everyone is different and it doesn’t matter what you like. I’m 58 and been with my share of women in my lifetime. Women’s sexual preferences vary and I’ve experienced all sorts of things from kinky to vanilla. It’s all good.
Yeah. Sometimes I want to have sex but the thought of having to go through the foreplay first puts me off
My wife’s like that. Except she doesn’t even like oral
You’re not unusual. Everyone is different.
My wife loves it when I eat her out and use our toys on her. But she really loves penetration because she wants that length and girth, especially when she tightens up her muscles to really feel it. I enjoy foreplay as much as I enjoy penetrating her, and love it when she directs me on how to get her there. So we have reached an accord: Some days, it’s mostly foreplay followed by the PIV; other days, it’s quick foreplay followed by lots of penetration; and some days, it’s just oral sex. So we are both satisfied.
You and your partner can talk about this and find your own median.
I’m totally this way. I told my FWB that I would much rather us have penetrative sex first and then foreplay. I’m also really fortunate that he can cum multiple times in a session (3 to 4 times) so after we have sex, we do foreplay. And then go on from there.
I’m not a very big fan of oral. I love penetration as well. Definitely find it way more intimate. I’ve never been a big fan of cuddling.
I think foreplay and oral and intercourse all fit together in a fantastic way. I would hate to live without any one of these.
My wife is like this, a bit. So, story time: I didn’t do oral much, like once a year for first 17 yrs of knowing my wife. Then I started doing oral, she basically got annoyed and implied it was a hassle. I was like…. what??? Anyway, we both enjoy it now, though its like only 1/5 sessions.
I like foreplay and penetration. They are both great to me….
But the real test?
If I can’t have one, which one to drop…. assuming I can get inside her… penetration for the win.