Mu husband almost always goes to sleep after me. I knew this before we got married, but it still saddens me to go to sleep in an empty bed every night. How do other couples deal with this?

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  1. Have you talked to him about it. Have you told him you want to have him there with you when you go to sleep.

  3. Sometimes this happens with my wife. I will sex her and then spoon her till she is sleeping. Then go downstairs and finish my show.

  4. I’ve seen other people post similar stuff and I don’t really understand it. I like having time to read and wind down on my own in our room. Plus we see each other every day and wake up next to each other so it’s not like we are missing out on quality time

  5. Analyze what you want out of going to bed at the same time. Do you want sex? Cuddles? Conversation? To watch a show together? Really think on it and figure out *why* it bothers you. Because being unconscious at the same time shouldn’t matter *that* much. Especially if you just have different sleep schedules.

    Then once you know what you miss ask for *that*. You said he comes to bed a few times a week but doesn’t want that to be the norm, so what is a compromise you can agree on? If it is cuddles or sex you want maybe you can just plan a 30 minutes cuddle fest after dinner or something. Just find a compromise and communicate

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