Thinking about starting cold approaching girls. Any tips?

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1. Don’t, nothing good will come from it.
   Getting approached by random guys is annoying, creepy and scary.

2. Yeah: don’t. Sign up for some activities and mingle with the people there.

3. I don’t really reply on guys in my instagram dm’s. Just mingle with girls in RL, you’ll get to know them much better that way.

4. Be nice and interesting, being an ass is just gonna dig u deeper in the “die alone” hole

5. Please don’t. As a woman…this is SO weird. And even worse, when the guy is socially UNcalibrated and awkward af – it makes US uncomfortable.

6. Don’t listen to these people in the comments. They don’t know what they’re saying. Cold approach will never die. There are girls that like it and there are girls that don’t. Just go for it

7. Go to a bookstore and fool around, if you see a hot girl approach her, do it as practice, have in mind that the possibility of getting rejected is somewhat high, but you are there to practice and you probably won’t see them again in your life so don’t be afraid of making a fool of yourself, and don’t listen to the other comments that are discouraging, they are pathetic and probably 11 year olds.

8. Approach people by asking random questions like “Hey do you know where x is”? Then start small talk from there. Feels natural and be friendly and nice and then you’ll notice if they’re interested or not. Then in the end ask for a number to hang out someday or whatever you want. If you see some are in a rush when you talking to them then just forget it, a huge sign they aren’t interested.