I (21m) can’t get my partner (19f) to finish. I’ve been seeing this girl for a couple of months now, and have never made her finish, sometimes she seems to get really into it when I’m giving her head, and then she’ll push me off because she doesn’t want more. She’s never came before, not even by herself. I’ve tried everything I can think of and it still doesn’t work. She says the sex is good and that she’s satisfied, but I just really want to be able to make her finish. Any advice on what I can do? Maybe my head technique is off?
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Most advice in this situation is that she’ll probably need to learn to cum in masturbation before you can get her there. You need something to go on, some understanding of what gets her there, the best technique. She also needs to know how to manage getting down that O road, it takes concentration sometimes, sometimes it takes specifically not thinking of anything (women’s orgasms are very much about their heads).
Maybe consider having her try a vibrator in private, see if that helps. Its often quite nice, but there’s no deterministic formula for all women, each one is unique.