He(26M) needs space from me (21F) now, and doesn’t want me to talk to him and I’m having a really hard time. I just want to talk everything out and go back to normal. I also get really jealous and anxious about his past. Hes my first love, but I’m not his and it makes me feel horrible when I think about it.
I don’t know what to do, I’m in therapy trying to work on this but it’s so hard. I can’t stop crying, I can’t sleep or eat. I just want to feel better and be good for him.
tldr; Can’t cope with relationship anxiety, he needs space and I’m having a really hard time.
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Is there something specific that occurred that caused this need for space?
Maybe space will be good, it doesn’t sound like you are ready for a relationship.
Keep working with therapy. Take your time and breath. After that the world will be clearer