Monogamous, long term relationships

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1. I think its normal to think about the other side of things & what it would be like if you were single. But it comes down to how much you cherish your partner & want them in your life. If you find yourself missing the sleeping around, more than you enjoy being in the relationship then it might be time to reconsider things.

2. Before getting married, I fortunately had a ton of experience with other women and all kinds of fun. I’d be happy to have skipped that and found my wife sooner. Yes, there are trade-offs being in a monogamous relationship, but I find the benefits far outweigh the transitory fun and constant pursuit of being single. I have a loving wife with whom I have an incredible sexual relationship plus someone to share and build a life with.

3. Okay so on one hand I feel like I’m not the best at answering this question, because I’m actually in a triad (3-way) marriage, and so I happen have two wives.

   On the other hand though, it’s a closed relationship, we’ve only ever been in a committed relationship with each other, and we ever all waited till we were married to have sex. So I feel like I at least have some pasta in the pot when it comes to this kinda thing.

   For me, I think it just comes down to how you view sex. For me personally, sex is something you do with someone once you’re committed to them, and is largely a display of love. Though I’m not going to act like I don’t find other girls pretty or attractive or whatever, I don’t want to have sex with them.

   Obviously, if you feel differently about sex, it’s gonna make it easier or harder. And hey, that’s fine, we’re all different. It’s just about trying to find the relationship dynamic (and partner) that works for you.

4. My wife and I have been married for 15 years we were our each others first. We both known each other since highschool. As for your question it doesn’t bother us she knows my body and I know her body. As for being married you have to find a way to keep the spark alive and not be in some rountine. We came from strict backgrounds and had no sexual knowledge but the best part is we both learned together and grew as a team. I don’t really think about other women cause she’s the only women I want and think about. She was very vanilla like she loved vanilla and she hated change we both have come along way. We both got out of our shell. I remember when we were 33 she let me buy her first vibrator and god did that blew her world. she suffer from body image issues. She better now and to be honest as a husband I’m proud of her to see how far she has come to see her being comfortable in her body the body which I fucking love and desire. She been bold/risky lately and I love it. Change can be scary but change can be good as well.