To be honest iv got alot of insecurities! So most of the time he is on top or we do positions that don’t require me being on top but every now and then he will role me on top and I almost panic, like I freeze and forget what to do 🤦♀️
Question 1 – why when I’m on top does he lay his arms out or put them behind his head?
Question 2 – what is the best way to move on top? Do boys enjoy the rocking back and forth motion?
Please for the love of God help me!!
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He puts his hands behind his head because its comfortable. I sleep with my hands behind my head; it opens up your diaphragm to let you breathe easier. If you would like him to put his hands on you, just ask! If you’re feeling anxious about being on top I would suggest trying some deep breathing exercises of your own too!
What way should you move? Well, for men pleasure is generally a matter of rubbing and friction, not just squeezing or changing pressures on the penis, so a certain amount of up-down motion is probably recommended. If your hips start to get tired, you can take a little breather and just roll your hips back and forth or in circular motions, but for the most part just like in other positions the thrusting is what is going to get him to cum.
Have fun!
Have no answer to question 1, I have tried it many times but I never enjoyed it a single bit.
Question 2, I like when she lays over me so that I can use my hips freely to run the show, I take a good grip around her ass and I might move her back and forth but mainly this is a position where I do the majority of the work, not to mention this position is awesome for sucking on her tits.
1) He puts his hand on the sides of your hips/waist
2) Back-Forth, Up-down anything is good
Have him put his hands on your waist. My husband likes to grab my tits or just touch me anywhere. Thrust or on r you get more comfortable you can go up and down depending on if he has enough to work with
Just do what feels good. Whether it’s rocking back and forth or grinding or whatever, just do what feels good. He’ll enjoy that.
Personally, I like putting my hands on the woman, either grabbing her ass or tits, or running them up and down her back. But to each his own. He’s probably just trying to relax and enjoy the ride.
He probably puts his hands behind his head so he can be comfortable to just be laying there taking in the wonderful view of the gorgeous woman on top of him.
I would say any type of movement on top of his penis will be enjoyed.