Me(21M) and my g(20F) have been together for 7 years and of course I love her that’s why we have been together for 7 years.
But we got together when we where children 13 and 14 years old, as I’ve got older my type and what I’m looking for has changed quite a bit.
And recently there has been a lot of arguments over Petty stuff like no-mater what I do she won’t be satisfied and she gets embarrassed when I just try to be me and it really gets to me but I don’t say anything and just do what I can to keep her calm, she has anxiety and I get that’s why she gets so annoyed but I just don’t think I can deal with it anymore but because I love her I’ve tried my best to help her and support her but it’s hard when she doesn’t listen to or try any of my advice and every conversation ends in arguments.
Also she is struggling with getting nationalised and her mental health, but I can’t deal with the arguments and her mental health plus I’m not in the best places either I try to get her to come to the gym with me but she just stays home
Would it be best to break things off?
TLDR
I’ve been with my gf for 7 years and my type has changed and I can’t deal with her mental health on top of mine any more but feel like an asshole if I leave her she’ll she is struggling
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*”Would it be best to break things off?”* yes