What are signs that you’re first date was successful?

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1. 1. She is still talking to you after.
   2. You don’t get a “not feeling it message”.
   3. She is open to a second date.

2. You text them afterward that you had a good time and they respond affirmatively quickly.

3. You get a 2nd date

4. She’s looking into your eyes while sucking you off?

5. No overthinking

6. There will be a second date

7. You take her out for coffee the next morning.

8. She knew not to spend the night after sex.

9. The other person wants a second date

10. I had one, she said “let me know if you want to go out again”

11. When I asked her to marry me and she said yes, granted it was 15 months later but that’s when I knew

12. She initiated the kiss when I dropped her off.

13. Full stomach. Empty balls.

14. Dropping her off, she said “that’s the most fun I’ve had on a date. Don’t think I’m not trying to get it, cause I’m trying to get it”

    We’re married now

15. They ask for a second one

16. you get a second date. in 2023 even getting laid isnt an indication that it went well lol

17. I figure at the minimum, we both enjoyed each other’s company enough to maybe want a second date.

    I would consider that a successful first date.

18. There’s a second one planned before the end of it

19. One good indicator is if you get her ankles up by her ears later that night it probably means it went well

20. You are in the middle of your second date. I’ve had tons of first dates that I thought went really well only to get ghosted after.

21. It technically never ended.

22. 1. Texting you after
    2. Making plans for a second date
    3. Don’t bail out on the second date

23. * The cost of the date is low. I once spent almost a $100 on a date, because I was more interested in the beer list than her. A good date means, we’re focused on one another and not the menu, place, or what’s playing on the television.
    * You go to a second place. There’s a desire to keep the night going, and she pays at the second place
    * She asks questions about you.
    * Neither of you are looking at your phones

24. You all are still friends after the date & great sex to finish the date off.

25. She’s in my bed the next morning

26. You go out for coffee and finish your coffee in 15 minutes before leaving 3 hours later.

27. You can tell by her feet. Like if they’re over your shoulders, you did a good job.

28. She texts you good morning the next day before you do

29. When she asks for another date or wants to stay longer. It’s only happened to me twice but god is it an ego boost.

30. Before the end of the date, she’s talking about ideas for the next date

31. She actively engages in plans for a second date

32. You wake up next to her

33. – She takes genuine interest in your life

    – She reciprocates the conversational flow by asking follow-up questions about something you said

    – She doesn’t give one-word answers

    – She doesn’t shy away from physical contact

    – She asks about your plans for the next few days/weeks

    – She flat-out says “I enjoyed this. We should see each other again soon”

34. I make her laugh without really trying to, the conversation flows, the attraction is apparent.