I’ve been seeing a girl for a few months now and it has been going great. We have good chemistry in the bedroom and when we meet up once a week or so we always end up having sex. It’s a relatively new activity for both of us so we are still learning.
A few dates back I was fingering her and licking her clit, and I made her orgasm. I felt her pussy grip my fingers as she went through it and could tell that it felt great for her.
During more recent dates I’ve been looking to help her experience that again, but don’t think I’ve been as successful. We keep it varied in the bedroom and I’m always able to get her feeling good, however there will come a point where she asks me to stop because the good feeling has reached a peak and is now more sensitive than enjoyable. I know she has had a good time getting there, but maybe not reached that satisfying orgasm.
We do communicate about sex, I know that’s important. But we are both still new to it and as you can maybe tell from my post not always great at articulating parts of it. She seems really happy about our intimate tine together and I don’t want her to worry by asking too much about this. I love that I can make her feel satisfied but it would be great to help her reach that strong orgasm again. Then once I’ve got that sorted, can start looking to give her several…
Any advice appreciated
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You probably need to mix it up a bit. You need something once then you went straight to doing it again before warming your gf up. Normal thing to do when you’re not experienced.
You need to get to know her body and she needs to learn about hers just as she has to learn about your body and you about yours. Learn how her body reacts when she enjoys what you do to her.
My wife tells me that I can give her small orgasms just by kissing her body. Give that a try.
Don’t underestimate the power of kissing and caressing. Take your time don’t rush it.
Explore together its not always the clit, ear, neck boobs.
For example my partner love it when my tongue slowly and softly licking/kissing from her legs to inner thigh then opening and sometimes going for tigh while caressing her breast real hard.
The one thing she always request is to kiss under her rib cage and side boob. In short there are some parts of their body that needs attention to make them goes crazy but there are not aware of it.