I asked a gal for a coffee date 3 days ago and we agreed to a time / date for today. I got to the place 10 mins early and texted her to let her know.
She then tells me she thought we weren’t meeting anymore / was still home because I didn’t confirm with her ahead of time.
Q: Is this a normal expectation with dates?
For context, I’m pretty new to dating and I’m just not aware with some of these unsaid expectations.
2 comments
Yes. You should confirm the same day of the date even though the date was established a couple of days ago. If it isn’t confirmed people assume it is canceled. She should have also asked. Both did wrong by not confirming the same day.
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