. i’m 21F. i’ve been with 3 different men. the first 2 were pretty okay at giving head, but i was never quiet able to finish. my current boyfriend is amazing at it, it feels really good and he knows what he’s doing. but my issue is no matter how good it feels. no matter who it’s with. no matter how long they go, i just can’t finish and it’s fucking irritating. i feel like a big part of it is my head isn’t in it, but how do i get it there???? but that’s not the for sure cause. it’s actually extremely frustrating. i know what i like and what feels good, but i can’t seem to finish. ever. and i’m not sure what to do. it can make my partner feel like he isn’t doing a good job and i hate that. any advice? does anyone know why this might be? or can anyone at least relate? it sucks.
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Can you masterbate to orgasm easily?
Hmm, you’re still pretty young, could just be anxiety. Like you said, your head isn’t in it.
Relax. Ease into it. Stop overthinking, just let go and give him control. Relax. Communicate clearly if/when you need to, and just let your body go on auto pilot. Follow the excitement, follow what feels good, tell him when it does, then after enough stimulation…. There ya go.
You been with 3 men and you say no man…give it time padawan
No man can until that one does and you can’t stop fantasizing about it over and over again til you get a wet spot.
Nothing in life is permanent…especially not having orgasms given to you by someone special enough to deserve you opening up for them…emotionally first. Then physically.
Honestly, maybe have him work you up and then let him watch you finish yourself. It’s hot for us, and maybe he can learn what you like. Just experiment and guide him until he does something similar to what you are able to do to yourself.