Me (25f) and my boyfriend (52m) have been seeing each other for 2 years now. We met on bumble, and initially I was skeptical because I normally go for slightly younger guys (around 41-48), but he is very dashing so I gave it a shot.
He swept me off my feet.
I was so deeply in love with him that I began to bring up the topic of marriage after 11 months. I knew he was the one. However he said that he wanted to wait until he was older to get married (between 59-62), and, to be honest, it had me peeved. I began to loose feelings, and felt confused. This August, for national girlfriend day, his daughter (21F) cooked us a romantic candle lit dinner. While this night was supposed to be about us, I was enamoured by her. She has this mysterious allure to her, like macavity the mystery cat. I knew it was wrong, but I also j wanted to get to know his family, so I scheduled a few solo hangs with her (mall trips, cafes, walks along the brooklyn bridge).
One thing lead to another, and, well, we fucked.
It was so much better than with him LOL
We are so incredibly emotionally compatible, and she’s also more open to marriage than he is. I know we’ve only been secretly seeing each other for 1 month, but I really feel like she is the one. You may think that this is a short time frame to come to this conclusion, but with girls its just different.
What do I do? Do I go to thanksgiving dinner? Please offer guidance.
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This has to be fake. You can’t be this callous you’ve more than likely ruined a family.
Calling shenanigans on this one.
First and foremost, I’m just gonna break down the things wrong with this post:
1. The age gap is somewhat disturbing. I don’t wanna kink shame or anything. Everyone here is an adult and you can do whatever you want but it’s a little weird that you go for a certain age of man that is much older than you.
2. It doesn’t seem like you’re thinking rationally based on saying that you want to marry this guy after 11 months that he was the one and now suddenly you’re enamored with his daughter. If this was really was the one for you, you will be taking an interest in the daughter has a daughter, not as a potential candidate to hook up with.
3. I’m a little upset because I’m also in New York and this kind of gives New Yorkers a bad rap so not thrilled about that.
4. You never even discussed whether or not you broke it off with the guy. It seems like you didn’t. If it’s true that you’re still seeing this guy and now his daughter, you’re not just an asshole you just a bad person.
5. I’m calling the BS on this entire post. The most telling thing is how OP describes this girl, “macavity the mystery cat.” This just reads like a terrible writer.
-Dave
Troll, poorly written fiction. Put in more effort.