I’m a 28 year old female and I first started dating last year. There are several reasons for this but mainly I wasn’t ready to date for a long time and I wasn’t in a good place mentally either. I’m still learning a lot about myself and what I want from a relationship. I’ve been going to more social events in the city to meet guys and I’ve been trying to also make friends. I’ve gone on a few dates but I have yet to meet someone special. I’ve tried dating apps but they haven’t really worked for me. I find that most people just want sex and I’m looking for a serious relationship. I have never been in a relationship before but I know I don’t want something casual. How should I go about dating? Should I just live my life and do things that I enjoy and hope that someone meaningful comes along? What else should I be doing to meet someone special?
I know my situation is a bit different and unusual but I’m just asking for some advice. Please be kind in the comments and to not be judgmental of me.
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Try going out to bars. Despite the negative talk, they are the best place to get approached.
not an unusual situation actually a lot of women I know are in your situation.
I would read up about how dating works. I would really really just go out on quite a few dates with multiple men to figure out what type of man you like, what type of dating you like.
I would do this BEFORE determining if any man is a good fit for a serious relationship.