I haven’t made anything close to a friend in 2 years and I don’t understand why. Iv also suddenly found socialising at all very difficult.
Granted 2 years ago I moved and started a new job, so Iv been faced with a bunch of new people. But it’s not like I haven’t faced new people before.
My jobs has a large workforce, so I don’t think it’s logical to assume everyone just isn’t my type, obviously some will be, but surely not everyone?
So why has this time been so difficult?
I don’t think I’m doing anything different from my normal socialising that has worked in the past. Apart from making less effort now after so long without it working.
It has gotten to the point where I have almost stopped trying to make smalltalk, because iv had so little response from my previous efforts. Obviously I know this isn’t helping, but I just feel so deflated/depressed about the situation.
What could I be doing wrong?