I’m (25f) dating an alpha man (34m). He usually doesn’t apologize for anything. In our fights I’m always who’s wrong and who apologizes. He’s cute and romantic sometimes, however, he likes some aggressive things in sex, for example, choke, slap, hit, he already mentioned rape and peel off the scalp, like ????? Am I dating a dangerous man or it’s just regular things men usually like but not for real? I’m afraid to be living an abusive or toxic relationship without knowing.
Edit: he’s struggling w mental health and sometimes has some suicidal thoughts too.
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Does he call himself an alpha male, or do you call him that? Because I promise you, any man who seriously calls himself an alpha male is a misogynistic douchebag.
This has to be fake.
You’re a Republican, aren’t you?
Are you happy on a daily basis ? then there’s your answer
If you’re having to even ask this question you know the answer is yes. By the way choking is a huge red flag if abuse and murder, there have been studies on this. https://www.wthr.com/article/news/crime/manual-strangulation-is-the-biggest-sign-domestic-abuse-will-turn-deadly-experts-say/531-0a9a92c8-a0da-418a-b81e-a3d80ddacf38
There’s nothing wrong with rough or kinky sex IF it’s consentual, but he also talks about rape and scalping??? That’s fucked up.
Ask yourself, if you had a daughter, would you want her to be with this man? If your best friend or your mother was in your place, what would you tell her?
By the way his struggling with mental health issues is NOT an excuse!