Women who find it extremely easy to orgasm with a partner (a lot)

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1. In my experience some women do orgasm quite easily — either via oral sex or penetration simultaneously while massaging the clitorus hood and vulva — easiest in rear entry as her hands are not blocked by the penis.

   Other women don’t cum easily and never have with prior partners but nonetheless enjoy sexual intimacy.

   I have also had some experience in bringing women to orgasm via slow and gentle anal penetration when they also self masage their clitorus and vagina at their own pace.

2. It is simple actually. You have to take control over your own clitoris. Your clitoris is your sexual organ just like the penis is the man’s sexual organ. You have to stimulate it knowing how to properly stimulate it while you’re being penetrated because only you know what gets you naturally and often and this is perfectly normal as it is still considered partnered sex.

   So either bring a vibrator or clit suction toy while he’s penetrating you you go at it and I promise it will become much more easier for you to orgasm through penetration eventually.

3. Truth is, I’ve always found it easy. Multiple orgasms, and there isn’t any one thing to get me there. Sure, bad sex can mean no orgasms, but even decent sex usually can get me off. I’d say that foreplay – whether it’s fingering, oral, or even just a good makeout definitely helps. I like some roughness so gentle doesn’t always make me orgasm. Knowing your preferences like I do would probably help. Sorry I can’t be more helpful.

4. Im a guy but I could speak for my experience with my partner and how we got to where we are. My partner had only orgasmed twice during sex prior to us dating. But with me she’s now at the point where I can make her finish in less than a minute, and she spends most of our time having sex either multiple orgasming or having prolonged orgasms, shaking and everything.

   She’s been sexually active for longer than I have (both 26yo) but I’ve had more partners.

   What I believe helped was first that I am a big giver, my biggest turn on is making my partner orgasm, so I spend a lot of time doing foreplay. I also never put pressure on her to finish, I approached it simply from a place of giving her pleasure. I also took the time to really love her every way I could, and figure out what was her particular turn on’s and what felt best.

   It also has to be mentioned that we just know we are soulmates and our attraction and emotional connection to each other is through the roof, and I’m sure without that it would be different.

   Tldr: approach it with patience, really take the time to explore and understand in detail what works best for your partner, and also do that outside of sex. She knows I will take care of her both in the bedroom and out of it, and that lets her express her sexuality in the most authentic possible way and I just can’t get enough of it.

5. I orgasm easily and quickly, but getting a partner to do what I want used to be difficult. ( I was with many guys who never touched the clitoris or did oral.) It has always been easy for me to climax and I’ve been doing it since I was a young child. However, getting a partner to touch me correctly or perform oral has been difficult. I was with people who thought women came from PIV and had no other knowledge. Some thought 5 minutes of rubbing or oral was just a nuisance.

   My husband needed no instruction; right from the start he knew exactly what to do. He either does oral on me or uses his hands. It’s usually before intercourse, but sometimes during and sometimes after. I never have sex without a climax, and our sex life has been satisfying for 3 decades.