I’ve been with my boyfriend for two years he never mentioned he might have a daddy kink we’re pretty open with each other but he’s literally never mentioned anything like this
A few days ago we were having rough sex and I was being more dom than usual and he called me daddy he apologized straight away and he was super embarrassing I just said it’s fine and kept going because I didn’t want to embarrass him more but don’t know if I should talk to him about it.
I don’t know if I liked him calling me that or not it was kinda hot but I just wish he would’ve told me he was into that so we could’ve tried it before. I don’t know how to speak to him about it without him getting embarrassed. Any advice on what to do would be really appreciated.
I’m sorry if this isn’t written very well English isn’t my first language
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Sometimes a bit of embarrassment is worth the end result! You should definitely sit down and have a talk with him about it.
If “Daddy” isn’t a honorific you’re sure you’re comfortable with, but if you found the act of having him call you something special hot then there are lots of alternatives. I’m sure that he’s got lots of ideas if you can get him talking haha. Try opening with telling him that you found it hot to some degree, it might ease some of the uncomfortable embarrassment if he knows that it was something that worked for you, even partially! Best of luck 🫶🏻
If you don’t know if you should talk to someone about something, then you should talk to them about it. If in doubt talk it out.
Also, you need to decide if you like it or not and communicate your preference. Ask yourself what you need to make that decision.
This may also be about you becoming comfortable with yourself and what you like. I recommend that you figure out who you are and what you like and own it without apologizing.