Had this happen to me recently. What’s y’all’s experiences? Do y’all find this rude? Annoying? I made these plans Monday-and said it would just be us multiple times and they said they’d get back to me and asked if I was still down Thursday night. I agreed and said repeated yeah I’m celebrating you. The following day( Friday ) they said they’d be adding 2 more people ( I’m friends with in the group already) I felt blindsided and ended up cancelling plans last minute because they invited people (again that I already know and could’ve invited if I wanted) last minute. I just feel like it’s social etiquette to not do that. What’s y’all experiences, AITA? 🤣
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Yeah, rude of them to do that without at least asking permission first. But even then you said you’d like it to just be a one on one hangout so to still do that is even more inconsiderate.
I haven’t had this happen to me but some close friends of mine have (and repeatedly with the same people) and they’ve dealt with it by setting boundaries.
Maybe they think it is a date? Some people feel more secure to bring someone else the first time and make it 2 people because that is last akward then a third wheel. If not you might wanna talk with them. I get that you are upset about this but maybe it has a good reason. My friend brought 2 friends on her date because something happend to her in the past and it is the only way she feel safe the first time.