Hello,
We have been married 10 years. Just found out our daughter is autistic. I recently started a new job and went back to school. Husband has been depressed for a while. I’ve been asking him to seek help as nothing else I’ve suggested has helped. He won’t leave the house and is bored of all his usual activities. Today he broke down and told me he feels unappreciated and that everything he does is for every one else. I don’t want to downplay his emotions but I don’t know what he means. He has plenty of free time available to him and every time I ask him what would make him happy, he says I should know. I am having trouble managing my own stress and I’m not sure what to do about his. I brought up seeing a therapist again and he got angry. What can I do?