a week ago i made 2 new friends, 2 girls one year older than me. for the first 3 days it went really nice, we went out everyday and had fun, but now i feel like they don’t like me anymore. we were supposed to hang out this weekend but i think both of them aren’t going to (one of them already told me she can’t) and in the past few days they didn’t include me much in their activities or conversation with their other friends. i have to confess that they’re probably my first ever real irl friends, i always sucked at approaching people or making stable friendships in real life, so i feel kinda lost, I don’t think i know how stuff works. i feel like maybe I’m way too clingy or maybe i got overconfident with them, I’m really afraid i seemed weird to them. am i just overthinking this?
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>am i just overthinking this?
yeah
you’ve known them for a week. they are going to be closer and interact more with their more established friends
foster these friendships, but actively pursue others as well. making friends is a skill that can be learned and improved
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