Would you date a shy, bookish guy?

32 comments

1. It’s my preference actually =P

   I can be loud for the both of us!! xD

2. come on you already know the answer here

   in High School or College do the nerds pull the most tail or is it the Football players?

   Come on man you know this

3. Yes

4. I prefer shy, bookish guys into obscure, niche things actually. That way i can learn about their mostly complex hobbies and I probably will never be bored since I’ll most probably enjoy them as well.

   As long as buddy has his own way of taking care of himself and his hobbies, I don’t see why I wouldn’t get along with such a guy

5. Yes, of course!

6. If cute, yes.

7. As long as we could find things to talk about, and have fun together, sure.

8. bro thinks this is tinder lol

9. Yup

10. yes, shy guys are my weakness 😅

11. lol, no, of course.

12. I like intelligent men so yes

13. Absolutely. I would never date a man who asks every women commenting on this question on a date athough.

14. Yes absolutely! I’m a shy bookish girl until you get to know me too.

15. I prefer quieter men myself.

16. That would be a dream!

17. Yea.

    My bf is like this. I adore him

18. If you’re having a great personality: yes, maybe

19. No, but I’m a straight married man. I’m sorry.

    But if I was gay or straight woman, then still no.

20. No

21. I’m a dude but a shy bookish girl would be awesome. Of course girls get to be shy. I think if you are going to be a guy and shy and bookish, you probably gotta be able to get out of the shy stage pretty quick.

22. That’s my type

23. Depends on how shy. Wouldn’t want someone too shy that they are a doormat especially outside of the relationship.

24. If you are not a bad boy, you are going to get punished.

25. Um actually, no joke at all, this *is* my type. Quiet, nerdy, likes books or video games or is a musician. And if they’ve got long brown hair then I’m done for.

    However.

    I have learned that my type has usually also shared some emotional and relational similarities (thanks Freud) which haven’t worked out well for me. I think it might not hurt to try and intentionally avoid my type when I get back out there, and hope I have better luck I guess? 🤷‍♀️

26. OP is using this post as the classifieds. That’s not shy. That’s cringe.

27. Yes I would; shy and bookish doesn’t define your whole personality!

28. Lmao this is pathetic

29. Yeah, so long as he’s not an extremely insecure, controlling, jealous mess. I’ve almost exclusively dated quiet bookish guys and they’ve been lovely for the most part.

30. I would! I’d love to chat

31. I like quiet guys, but I don’t want them tooo soft yknow. I also like when a guy takes the lead too !

32. Women will date just about any type of guy if he’s tall

    Are you tall?