(Obligatory I’m on mobile forgive me) I (25f) am ready to have unprotected sex with my longterm partner, we have discussed the possibility of pregnancy and are aware and okay with that possible outcome. The thing is, while I’ve been having sex since 16 I’ve always used condoms/had my partner pull out. All my friends, across the gender board, say this is going to be “so much better” but I don’t know what to expect other than yeah it’s going to happen. I don’t know why I am so nervous about sperm below the Mason-Dixon Line and Is there a best position or can someone explain to me why exactly it is so much better?
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It’s all about texture and friction.
Imagine rubber wet… its slippy and just kinda slides through your hands.
Now imagine skin, it can be rough when wet, friction will be greater meaning your virgina will move more and feel more stretch, you’ll feel his foreskin peel back and forward inside more intensely.
As for the cum there isn’t any easy way to help you, everyone is different some love it, some manage and some hate it.
Position wise missionary is best for cumming inside you, easy to clean up and easier for you to retain it as you’re trying for a baby.
As you get used to it behind to explore of things 🙂
Skin on skin, so to speak, is nicer than latex on skin.
As for position, whatever you normally like. It doesn’t change the mechanics of it all.
Hmm idk as a man I probably can’t offer you much perspective, but just be aware that even if he cums deep in you, it will probably still leak out partially because it kind of melts and gets runnier inside you. So I guess that’s one thing to be aware of. My girlfriend says she can feel the shape of my head, veins and ridges on my cock better with no condom. And of course for me its absolute bliss.
I’ll just be the odd one out and say vs pulling out, its not that much better. 99% of the sex is exactly the same, and the 1% is different but its not mindblowing.