Okay so
I’m (M23) seeing my gf (F22) for the first time in months.
We both lost our virginity to eachother and it’s been almost two years. When I see her, I want to please her in a way she’s never felt before. I want her legs to be shaking afterwards, maybe even leave her unable to move if I can lol.
Normally she cums when I give her head or if we’re having penetrative sex she used her hand to stimulate her clit to cum.
What can I do to make it so much better?
Does delaying her orgasm do the trick or is there something else ?
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I think spontaneity is key for leg shaking orgasms, only time I’ve given those to my wife is when I’ve randomly thrown her on the bed and fucked her or put her on the kitchen counter out of the blue and fucked her fast and hard. Of course it’s easier said than done because it’s not always easy to make sure it’s ok to do that in the moment. It’s worth mentioning I always linger a bit when I start manhandling her to give her a chance to know what’s going on and for her to tell me no if she wants, which most of the time she does, but when she goes along with it she seems to have the best orgasms
for me, this happens when bf goes fast and hard. (so almost every time lmao) if she’s into it, try that! harder generally feels better than faster, so to conserve stamina for yourself you can take breaks and go a bit slower while keeping the same strength.
Touch her clit while penetrating her, lick and gently suck her nipples, kiss her neck, lick her pussy. Thank me later.
Have made legs shake uncontrollably before but just a few times. You’ve probably seen this in porn I believe in that context it usually happens when the girls legs get tired or strained enough rather than from having her mind blown by the sex per se. My advice is there is enough to navigate around relationships and sex without goals like this.
Rub her clit while going hard and when she is about to get there, don’t you dare stop lol
You’ve gotta do more “hip thrust exorsizes” and probably work on endurance. If you are addressing the clit and getting her satasfied you are at a point most men don’t know about 🤣 so next is just improving from there with what already works. You can try blindfolds or sensory withdraw in a few areas if she trusts you. But it’s all about finding out what she really wants.
Try fisting her.
Put her left leg in and put her left out, do the Hokey Pokey…..
Just have her do a good set of lunges should do the trick.
Women can orgasm many many times. If you want her to remember this time, just make her finish as many times as you can by switching between oral and penetration and whatever else she’s into.
Definitely do not try to match her in quantity!
If I was you, I’d order at least some basic toys like a little tiny vibrator or a magic wand. Having it will might give your mouth/hands/whatever your using a break enough to keep going again after she finishes. Best of luck!
Its usually from orgasms or intense arousal.spend time on her clit. And g spot. significant multiple orgasms can leave you stuttering lol
Let her use a toy on her clit while you finger her to one (or more) orgasms. Then have sex. Everything is way more sensitive after orgasming big.