He is a known player and very arrogant.
He doesn’t reply to my msg sometimes. But I always reply to his msg.
He invites me for coffee and talk to me for over 3 hours. He never looks at the phone. I have never met someone who can talk over 3 hours.. He talks about his future, his previous work, his favorite trip, his current struggles. He also asks about my day, do I enjoy my work, what will I do next, and when I answer, he listens.
He wants to talk over phone and it will last more than an hour multiple times. Mostly he talks and I listen. I am not very talkative.
He sometimes tell me I never wants to talk over phone which is not true at all. I don’t know why he thinks that.
His friends said when he is with me, he is changed person.
He stares at me often. He mirrors my moves whenever we meet.
He always laugh wholeheartedly whenever he is with me.
Sometimes, we texted over an hour. He sent me photos of his and I shared mine.
He teased me all the time.
However, he often said he is arrogant and too busy to meet and talk with others. He said I am lucky to talk and meet with me.
He has sister and talk about her fondly. He also loves his family.
He said he likes watching SpongeBob but never bothers to ask me which movies I like.
He doesn’t like when I mention about men I found attractive.
I don’t want to ask him he likes me or not since I don’t want to feed his ego.
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C’mon, no one is this dumb.
He seems interested, but approach with caution. Personally, I’m seeing potential manipulative behaviors: his inconsistency in communication, his “you’re lucky to talk to me” comment, and the power dynamic he seems to be creating between the two of you.
If something feels off, trust your gut.