If there’s a lot of uncertainties about your partner in a relationship, at what point would you leave?

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1. You leave when a yellow flag becomes a red flag. If it feels morally wrong, be gone. If it’s something you can’t communicate through.

2. I don’t do uncertainty 😅 if I can’t tell if you’re obsessed with me and ready to give up the world for me, you’re not the one. my bf would go to the ends of the earth for me and has repeatedly proven it.

3. After a few serious conversations and unable to address the matter.

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5. In past relationships, I had a gut feeling of uncertainty for a few weeks, but I held out hope that things would turn around once we got past x, y, and z.

   Then my partner did something that sent me over the edge, and I couldn’t ignore the voice screaming in my head, “IT’S OVER! THIS ISN’T GOING TO WORK!” And I got the ick, and couldn’t stand them being my partner anymore.