I (F) am new to a straight fwb situation and I am struggling a little bit. I have been with women previously so over the years I have gotten pretty good at eating out my partners, however, sucking dick is proving to be a difficult hurdle for me. I have lurked on this reddit before and I know that this is not a new question but hopefully some more insight would help me.
I have a small mouth, to the point where even dentists have pointed it out, and my partner is on the gurthier side of things. This means I can already barely fit him in my mouth and when I try to go deeper to get myself to gag and create a sloppier head, my teeth inevitably get in the way. In addition, I already struggle with dry mouth so after a little bit we both kind of give up.
I really want to be able to please him but I am at such a loss- I can suck on the head all day but my mouth dries up way too easily and I know it’s not fun for him. He is incredibly sweet about this being my first time with a man so I will take any advise I can get.
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Don’t overwork the jaw trying to take something too large for it, when the most sensitive and responsive to pleasure segment is the frenulum. Try getting inspiration from tongue-heavy oral giving content creators like CherryCrush. You’ll get it in the end, just takes practice
Chew sugar-free gum, this can stimulate your salivary glands to produce more saliva. Suck on ice cubes, the ice will melt slowly and moisten your mouth. Avoid alcohol, caffeine, and smoking. These can all make a dry mouth worse.
With size comes drawbacks, and this could be a mismatch physically (esp. if he doesn’t like teeth on dick, most men don’t). Its not the end of the world at all, you can try just the glans, and use your hands on the shaft of his dick, in a handjob/BJ hybrid. You’ll need adequate lubrication for your hands on the shaft, which brings me to:
Flavored lube!
Try AstroGlide, its kinda thick, but combined with saliva, should be more than sufficient for your hands and your mouth to stay in the game.
GL