What are some rare traits that if you found in the person you are dating it would outweigh almost all their other negative traits?

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1. He takes accountability for what he’s done wrong, he is very honest and devoted, I know he would never lie to me.

2. Once met someone who was a bit far from what I’d usually go for, but probably one of the most articulate, considerate, and smart people I have ever met. They owned up to their negative traits and that just made me like them more. Saw them as out of my league, so let it go – I’ll never forget how remarkable they were.

   For anyone wondering the “negative” traits were the objectively strange relationship with family. And liking me too much too soon. I saw past those flags.

3. I would go for two: intellectual and ethical

4. Affection, warmth ,sexiness,humour outweighing scary mood changes.

5. The combo of “they’re as smart as me” + “our senses of humor line up” + “our kinks line up” has been my undoing many times