so, i rely very heavily on penetration to get off but i cant seem to figure out how to stretch myself. every time i try it just doesn’t work, i already have troubles with fully relaxing in, any circumstance. and i am a virgin, aswell so idk if that changes anything. but i just want to be able to get off in a way thats actually satisfying for me.
i tried to get off with an actual toy for the first time today, but it was a complete failure considering i couldn’t even get it inside me. i only have so much time to myself in a day so maybe i rushed it, but i dont wanna hurt myself when im just trying to get off
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Did you have lube to use with the toy? If not, definitely get some lube. Also, since you are a virgin, aim for a smaller toy. Something else you could look into is dilators. They’re like dildos but intended for gradually stretching the vagina. Most start at 3 inches, which might be ideal for you right now.
You may want smaller toys or a dilator set that lets you start small and work your way up.