Me and my girlfriend have been together for a while so far and we’ve had sex many times. And it’s amazing we both get off and we both love it. But I’ve noticed that she’s been using her dildos a lot also. Her dildos are around 8 inches long but I’m not jealous about the size at all. I love watching her use them when she sends me videos and photos but I just feel kinda jealous. Maybe I’m jealous that I’m not the one fucking her or maybe because her dildos are thicker then my dick. I don’t know honestly. It almost makes me feel like she doesn’t need me because she always has her dildos. Any advice?
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You said you’re not jealous about to size but the size was really all you mentioned about it.
A dildo will never replace a penis attached to a person. First, there’s the obvious emotional part which is huge. She wants you, not just your penis. Also, in terms of the size, an 8 inch dildo is not the same as an 8 inch penis. With the dildo, she is controlling the pace, depth and motion. It’s not the same as someone else (you) controlling those things and the movement of your body adding to it.
Toys are your friends and they will never replace you.
Dildos are all well and good, but they can never replace the person attached to a real penis. The weight of a guy on top of you, his hands touching you, his mouth kissing you, the words you say to each other, these all make the experience a million times better.
Aye, a dildo is grand for making you cum, but it can’t surprise you by touching you somewhere unexpected or whispering something in your ear as he bottoms out inside of you. It’s two totally different experiences, both physically and mentally. Would you rather fuck your hand, on have sex with your girlfriend? And why?
I’ve said it before on here, the sooner men see toys as team mates rather than opponents, the better.
It started out kinda sweet honestly.
Are you available to her all the time? I know the only time I do these things is when he can’t be with me…and I always watch a certain video we made together while doing it so i can see and hear him…not a replacement just coping with a high sex drive when my babe isn’t available