Ok so lately for the last few years I have been completely over vigilant during sex and have been having a hard time breaking through a stiff soldier like state to looser pleasure.
I have different traumas and am also a former psych student and prison scholar. A bit lit up a lot of days. The best sex comes after being in close proximity to people with violent raps because that is the only thing that by passes the trauma.
Is there anyone on here that has any suggestions for calming down my mind…I currently always feel like a dom because I think a lot and my body is prepped to kill in self defence like 80% of the time.
Don’t worry about the safety of my loved ones they are fine. I’m just wondering if anyone else has a similar mental block.
What would you recommend?