I feel like I’m constantly doing the initiating. I’ve spoken to him about this twice or three times, about how if I don’t initiate it, we’d never have sex. And he says it isn’t true, but it is. We are so good in our relationship except for that. I’m not satisfied. We barely have sex. It wasn’t really like this in the beginning and we’ve been tg for 3 1/2 years. Some nights I even cry because I just want to feel that sexual/romantic intimacy. It bothers me even more because in the beginning of our relationship (childish move of mine), I went through his phone and found old messages of him and his ex talking about how much sex they always have and how they have sex 24/7. But with me it’s nothing. I don’t get it. Can someone please give me some advice other than “don’t come on Reddit , talk to him instead” bc I have and it clearly didn’t work
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you guys were rabbits in the beginning but not anymore. you’re jealous of his ex. maybe he was with his ex for only that beginning phase.
unless there’s an elephant in the room it could this is his normal libido under your current living conditions as well as stage and state in life.