Does it really work?

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1. in some cases sure, but i think it’s best to be yourself and to focus on yourself. i have several guy friends and they all tell me that they’re most interested in girls that are “interesting”.

2. The girl I’m talking to right now is playing hard to get & it’s a little irritating at times because I’m almost 29 and I don’t really have the patience or time to waste when we’re both the same age. But I also believe she has been through some rough relationships or hasn’t had the best luck with picking men so I’m not giving up. But after a while if the same energy is reciprocated then it makes you wonder why should I put in all this effort if they can’t do the same.

3. Some truth in it. I’ve been totally infatuated with a girl for 6 weeks and she isn’t either nice or smart or that hot, it’s just that she’s unpredictable

4. Ugh! So frustrating haha. I like this one guy but he’s very very hot and cold with me and I never know what he’s really thinking.

5. Just be yourself, don t pretend. The right guy will stay

6. No it doesn’t work anymore. That tactic doesn’t work now because many guys are afraid to even approach for fear of being called a creep, let alone pursue a woman that doesn’t show interest or rejects them.

   If you’re interested in them, then accept their dates. You don’t have to hide all of your interest in them, but just have a reasonable timeline to escalate emotionally. Slowly show more interest as they spend more time with you. Other than the occasional hello, what’s up text, don’t have lots of exchanges until much later on.

   Show enough interest to keep them hooked as you slowly reel them in. Don’t sleep with them too soon. Two weeks and three dates at least. Plus this gives you time to change your mind about them before you start something you’ll regret.