As the title suggests, we decided we were ready to try penetration. I bought lube just for the occasion, we used a decent amount of it, tried a few different positions (me on top, her on top, etc.) But no matter what we tried, i couldn’t even get the tip in. What am i supposed to now? Just accept that it’s not possible? I don’t want to hurt her
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Lube, foreplay, she needs to relax.. It might hurt but it can fit, trust me.
Lots and lots of foreplay. Go down on her. Insert a finger, then 2 , then 3. Make her relaxed. Take it slow. Let her control how much you put in. Respect that amount. Don’t try to just sink it all in her. You’ll be able to go balls deep in time. Don’t make her feel bad about it either.
So, babies come out of those things, I’ve heard.
Definitely kidding, but also not. Litterally, 8 pound babies come out of them. They stretch. Give it some time, start with fingers, massage the entire vulva, take everything slow. It will definitely fit, it’s just gonna take some time!
Older Guy here. Hmm. I think just back off on the penetration stuff. Maybe too much too soon. Just focus on big hugs and snogs and a bit if playing around. Find out what she likes… apart from penetration. Like wise tell her. The whole penetration stuff TBH a bit over rated.
She will very probably NOT orgasm that way.. take time both of you.
And … now we have 4 comments of “add lube to hole” before anyone says “make her cum”. This sub, man.
Argh. Women’s bodies change in many ways with arousal, it’s not just wetness.
Tell her you think it would be sexy to watch her make herself cum.
Pay attention to the professor in the class and try those techniques next time.