I (20F) met this girl at the gym yesterday. I didn’t hit on her or anything but i did get her IG. I’m tryna make friends here lol. I saw that we have some mutuals but idk how close they are if at all. While at the gym, we talked briefly about piercings and tattoos (usually my go to lol) since she had some and i thought they were cool. Honestly i never thought i’d get this far so wtf do i do now? I don’t want our dms to be super dry.
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Maybe try to see when she’s going to the gym or let her know when you’re going? Could be risky though if she isn’t into you.
Maybe just leave it at hey and reevaluate if she responds
Try asking her if you guys can have a workout together, not a bad ice breaker
Sum like hey idk if you’d wanna go together or not but I go out to the gym around (__:__) if you want got some of the best pre lol
DON’T.
Wait until you see her again.
The last thing you want is for her to ignore your message, or give you really blunt responses and then it be super awkward when you see her again.
Gauge her interest in real life, if she gives you signals, then message her.
Lube your dms
Oh wtf idk girls ignore girls. Dayum it’s tuff out there. Also not everyone is lesb put that in consideration~