Basically the title. I found a cool person who introduced me to their really nice and comforting group of friends. It was the little community I had been looking for throughout college and I just got out of a long term relationship that was very isolating for me. But then my abandonment issues kicked in and I kept reaching out, kept inviting, kept inserting myself. It got so far that when something tough happened at home, I asked her to pick me up for a drive late one night and she didn’t respond until the next day, just a “sorry I was busy— u okay?”.
Needless to say, I feel like this person doesn’t like me since I’ve acted so strange. It’s really depressing because I feel like I ruined things by acting weird when I should have just kept things light-hearted and appreciated the nice friendship for what it was without trying to rush/force an emotional connection. :((
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I don’t get the vibe at all from that text that this person doesn’t like you – they were busy that night so couldn’t respond but wanted to make sure you were okay. People aren’t going to be able to get together every time you ask or always respond immediately to your texts, it doesn’t mean their feelings toward you have changed.
There’s not enough other information in your post to help determine if you really were pushing a connection too quickly or not, but that text certainly shouldn’t be an indication of anything.