We’re in the same class of our postgraduate studies. I was recognized because of how much I participate in class and I try to be as confident as I can. She didn’t look approachable but I we did talk once. Anyway, I said “How are you?” to her one time, but she barely responded. I was like she’s not into me. But I come back home and I find a text from her weirdly responding to me via text. I got to know her and the text conversation was playful. She asked if I wanted to call her and we did talk on the phone and it started from there. I called her a day later to ask her about something and it was like she wanted it saying like “I thought you didn’t want to talk” and then she said she wanted a chance for us to talk more because later we’re gonna be busy with our studies. I was surprised because I thought she wasn’t into it. She then wanted us to talk more, and we did later that day. She kept showing interest like she told me her mom and aunt know about me and she even told me she wore those shoes so that she’d look shorter, “because you like short girls” and she even did her make up like how I like it. And she took a photo of us together.
THEN! She started to act strange. She stops talking and walking with me. When I got back home, I asked her about it and she was like “I was concerned we’re moving way too fast” and how she initially wanted friends but didn’t expect things to go in that direction. I was like WTF? She started it. And she also told me how she feels bad and that it’s not right… I was confused that she wanted us to be friends now. All of this was within just a single week. It ended between us. She even deleted our chat and call logs.
I kid you not, a week later, I see her with another guy. Now, I almost gave up on ever finding a girl that genuinely likes me. It feels like it was all a show. I felt used. I sure don’t want a girl who treats people like that, but how it made me feel is… It made me sad. What do you think her intention was? Why?
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oh she is one of those , i dont really want you but keep giving me attention .
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