I have a good hygiene and I remain clean and shaved. I give good bj to satisfy him but he doesn’t return the favor which he should. He says he don’t like to lick so i don’t wanna force him. What should I do ? I just can get satisfied without licking of my pussy.
How can i make him understand?

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  3. You leave.

    You can’t make someone do something sexual that they don’t want to do. And trying to badger someone about it is not ok.

  4. You can’t make him like it if he doesn’t.

    Options I see:

    1. Accept it and never receive oral.

    2. Stop giving him BJ as he doesn’t reciprocate. If he loves receiving BJ then it might make him think about giving oral.

    3. Find a partner who would satisfy you.

  5. The sad thing is, that some people like giving or getting oral, others dont 😖
    Even if you could get him ti lick your pussy, it wont be with passion and it wont be good.

    I hate blowjobs but i am obsessed with eating pussy! And women really feel the difference, because i lick them for hours and never want to stop, while not wanting anything in return 😁

    Its totally fine if he doesnt want to lick pussy, just like its fine if a woman wants to be licked but never gives blowjobs.
    I dont think you are going to get the licking you crave from him 😖

  6. You can’t make him understand. Desire is not logic based, so no amount of explanations will make him desire to devour you. You either accept no pussy licking or you move on.

  7. Op I noticed you said y’all already talked. I’d bring it up again and ask why he won’t. There’s a reason and if the relationship matters to both of y’all then you and him both need to work it out. Leaving someone over that is a last resort and there’s awful advice being given here. I’d recommend you holding off on blowjobs and getting a toy that helps with your needs until the situation is resolved.

  8. Sex is a two-way street. It is meant to be mutually enjoyable for both parties.

    If something isn’t happening or working. Talk about it. Communication is vital and key in pretty much every aspect of life.

    I absolutely LOVE performing cunninlingus. It’s the best part of sex for me, and I’d do it at every opportunity so I don’t understand why someone wouldn’t jump at the chance but there likely is a reason and communication will get to the bottom of it.

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