I always feel as if trying to take a woman on an actual date is futile and setting myself up to lose, i just get ghosted cancelled or shut down. are you the fool for asking women on dates? just asking her to come over and doing the deed has always been much more successful for women I’m interested in but it doesn’t develop much further than that. I got out of a relationship about 6 months ago and it just feels like most women would prefer if I just was a sleezy guy. I’m not complaining about that part but it feels like it would be less effort if I just was able to get actual dates. Like I don’t want the relationships i have with women be just because they wanted to crawl into my bed.