So i meet a great girl on tinder 3 weeks ago .
We matched and started talking even exchanged number relative fast .
We clicked instantly .
We both wanted to meet up but we live in separate cities ( about 20 km away from each other so thats not much of a problem ) but we worked and were busy so we made a plan and freed up our scheldules last weekend .
We decided to meet up and if everything went well i could crash at her place ( That was the plan ) .
We even talked about sex since our conversations become very sexual sometimes and we both did not want to rush it .
We meet talk a bit and she already invited me to her place and grabbed something to eat .
We talked kissed alot and she was already making the moves despite our initial lets not rush it .
We had sex that night and next day . Things were going great .
I noticed just hours before leaving that she had something on her mind and was trying her best to hide it but wanted to give her space so i did not say anything .
We talked a bit after i got home but we did not call each other since she was tired .
We did not talk much the next day but did the day after that .
She told me she finds me attractive and i make her feel good , respectful and all but she did not feel the spark and maybe we should just remain friends .
Should i try to get her on a second date and pursue or just leave it alone ?
My first real relationship was with a girl i had 0 feelings at start and no ‘spark’ and ended up loving the girl for 3 years .
And most of my longterm relationships start like that and developed in something special.