Okay so I’m 23/F and I am really worried
I was with my ex for 5-6 months and we use to fuck a lott but I never had an orgasm. I mean I don’t even know how I feels like! even when I masterbate I just rub no fingering because I find it difficult and sometimes I come but I am never satisfied even by myself.
I thought the problem with my ex was he just cared about his pleasure (which he obviously did more but sometimes he was their for me too ) but still, I watch porn and nowadays I’m watching it a lot (I mean In control)
So what happened was yesterday I was with this guy whom I was sexting with I met him on a dating app and our vibes matched and we were really attracted towards each other
So I met him and we started making out in his car ( which is like my fantasy) and he was soo soo good in eating me out I mean it felt like he was just their for me
He fingered me and everything and I could sense he was exhausted but I still couldn’t come
I feel soo bad he had put in soo much efforts and ..
Although he didn’t say anything and we kissed in the end but I mean what is the problem with me ?
I am not attracted towards girls but sometimes I just get this thought in my mind that am I a lesbian?
My best friend tells me that when she’s with her boyfriend she just forgets everything while they are fucking and it’s soo good and everything so why haven’t I experienced anything like that ?
Should I do something about it?
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Try going out with a girl and see if it feels comfortable and hot or not
Like 10% of women have never experienced an orgasm, so you’re hardly alone here.
Work out what you like and don’t like, experiment, buy some toys you are interested in. Maybe you’ll get somewhere, maybe you won’t, but you’ll at least know yourself better.
It’s not that uncommon for women to experience this. I didn’t have orgasms with other people for very, very long – even now there are few people who have managed.
Explore your body and try different ways, rhythms, techniques to masturbate, without judgements or urgency. Have “feeling good” as your goal, not an orgasm.
Once you learn what feels nice/how to orgasm, you can guide your future partners on how to do it!
right off the bat go talk to your doctor and make sure it is not a medical problem, instead listening to guesses and opinions . ill can tell you some facts only 33 % of women orgasm while having intercourse ,and your not alone by any means as far cumming while masturbating millions of women have the same problem. Please before you turn it into a mental block or make it bigger than it already is please start with your doctor, it could be diet could be lack vitamins, idk but at least eliminate all possible medical outcomes .