And believe me, I’m not the best person. But there are things, that everyone is chill about, eg gossipping, judging clothes or appearance, a whole essay about how weird someone is, even about close friends. And they don’t get the irony, that they are saying mean things and top it with a “…you know, but not like me, they are REALLY weird bla bla”. And they lie to each other a lot. There are eg besties over decades and they lie to each other, even though they vent and gossip last night about the other.
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In my experience most of the people have been really nice while the bad apples are the minority
It’s just a matter of exchanging such friends for a batch that doesn’t do all those things. I personally no longer have friends who gossip, judge, or call people weird. Usually people are either engaging in such behavior or shun it completely. So once you find a few friends who maintain integrity and a positive view of others, everyone else you meet with them will be the same way.