So, i 23M lost my virginity to this girl last week. If you see my previous post post you will get to know that we both works in a same office, we work night shift. So, we hooked up last week and we decided that we will remain fwb and fulfill our fantasies and kinks. We bonded this was only. My ex was not at all into sex due to her religious beliefs and we never did it in 2 years of relationship. She broke up with her ex because he was into vanilla sex and was not open to stuff so we bonded by sharing our breakup stories.
I mean i know that she is kinky and horny pretty much all the time because she flirts , touches me in the office and send me sexy snaps, videos asking me to come to washroom blah blah but I obviously don’t do that. So, Mon to Thursday we come and go via cab but on Friday i bring my car and we chill after office. After today’s shift, she told me that we can go to her friend’s place as she has the keys and her friend is gone this whole weekend. We went there, had sex but when i was about to cum i told her to suck me off and make me cum. She was on her knees and sucking me and holding my butt and i was about to cum in a second and I noticed she was trying to reach my butthole and i came so she stopped and then we were cuddling then we stated that we have a place to spend our weekend at and were laughing and enjoying. Then she asked me if i am willing to go on a trip in November where we will do whatever we want and truly fulfil our fantasies. I obviously agreed and then we started taking about the things which we actually want. She asked for my preferences first. I told her about my fantasies. I told her, i want to try BDSM(tieing her up, spanking, facefuck), try doing it in public (Car, trial room, club washrooms, etc.) that’s it. She agreed and jokingly told me that i can spank her anyways and it doesn’t have to be BDSM specifically. I got a lill happy BUT!!
Here comes her list which made me rethink about the trip.
1) she wants to take charge for once (she wants a day where i will not do anything, she will initiate everything from kissing to everything, switching positions whenever she wants (Not degrading but just her taking charge) – I obviously have no problem, even i am excited.
2) she wants me to treat her like a slave. Fuck her, face slaps, spanking, bondage, spitting on her , degrading her and in the end golden shower- I mean i have no problem in fulfilling this fantasy but golden shower sounds BADDDD and filthy
3) She wants me to act dead or paralysed and don’t move while she do things. (Dead word sounds creepy to me. I mean i can obviously lie down and don’t move and let her do whatever she wants but her mentality and putting her fantasies into words creeps me out. It’s like she want to ride someone who is dead or paralysed) – i got little worried!!
4) she is experienced but has never tried anal. Apart from penetration, she wants my tongue in her butt as well – i am not worried and open to it.
5) it’s not just her butt that she wants me to explore. She wants to eat my ass too, finger it and try pegging – i mean, while she was blowing me, i thought no i am mistaking it and she was not reaching my butthole but when she told me this i was like NOOOOOOOO.
6) here comes the most weird thing. She wants to be watched. She wants me to fuck her while being watched by another naked guy in a room who will just watch. She has a kink and wants me to creampie her that day and later on want that guy to ear her pussy and clean it with her tongue then sleep between both of us on a single bed.
7) she wants both of us to be covered in red paint and fuck.(she is into gore stuff).
I am just confused and little scared tbh with 3rd,5th,6th and 7th point. Do you think i should stop seeing her? I mean 5th and 6th can be a kink for some people but 3rd and 7th sounds psychotic.
A suggestion might help.
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Respectfully decline that offer if you’re not comfortable with it. Don’t be judgemental and be cool about it. Just tell her you are not into that and keep it cool
Oh, god, she’s a hot stuff. But don’t do anything you don’t want to.
Remember, please, that fantasies not equal actions. And the desire to do something does not signify intention or readiness. You just share your fantasies for each other, it was the moment of intimacy and vulnerability. Some of this fantasies you will embody, some will remain just a picture in imagination, which is also great.
When you’re older, you’ll regret more the things you never did than the things you did… that’s all I’ll say. You won’t come across many girls like that in your life
Highly recommend do not get involved with coworkers, don’t shit where you eat. Work is for bringing home the bread, recommend not mixing it with pleasure.
There could be a nightmare if HR finds out. Now everything is going fine, but have you considered what might happen if you get on the bad side with your “psychopath” fwb?