I (m22) recently met this girl (f22) on bumble and we’ve been talking for weeks. I decided i wanted to take her out, so last night we went to a fancy dinner, then walked around the square and then watched fireworks from the city. after that we came back to my place and watched a movie. We started kissing, and she started touching me, after kissing me and touching me for a while she pulled back and said she didn’t want to do anything sexual. I was so confused after she was obviously touching me in ways. what am i missing? what did I do wrong???
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Nothing. She changed her mind about going further which she absolutely has the right to do
Could be she also just wanted to stay at that kissing and somewhat touching “not too sexual” level. Be respectful and she may come around.
I had a date with a girl. She came over and watched a movie and it ended late. I said “you can stay if you want, and you can use the other room if you want” and she later said “once you said I could have the room to myself and you’d sleep elsewhere, I was comfortable to sleep with you”. So… yeah, girl has a boundary. Respect it. She’ll let you know when she’s ready, and if you’re not sure you can ask again (in a few weeks).