I (19f) have always fancy guys that have a good hygiene and a soft side, there’s been other guys I have liked but I always get the ick when I find out they don’t have a good hygiene or they arent considerate to others and I was just wondering if it’s just me or there’s other people like this?
and fyi guys well people in general dont automatically have to look a certain way to have good hygiene or be soft there is people that look clean but are real dirty or unconsiderate of other people and things
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The hygiene thing. Honestly I think we as a society are failing boys if they don’t understand cleaning themselves. I didn’t when I was 19
But it sounds like you’re describing Metrosexuals which get plenty of attention. I have only gotten more and more attention the more fabulously I dress and the better I’m groomed/skincared.
The thing I find fascinating is that I think I act super feminine but I’m described as masculine more often than when I was more stoic. I think Authenticity just wins all.
What does good hygiene include?
Yeah I think we all prefer men with good hygiene. But I don’t think having good hygiene is “girly.”