I have a massive crush on a guy. We started working on a project together a couple of months ago, and the project won’t end until January next year. It’s the worst crush I have ever had in my life. Like it’s all consuming, I constantly feel overwhelmed by my feelings. like it’s bad! I got it really bad!
For more context we have so much in common like to the point of me not being able to find anything wrong with him. And I’m normally a pretty logical person but like he just seems like he’s my perfect person.
A couple of weeks ago I just went for it and decided to ask him out. He turned me down in the nicest way possible and said it’s because he is seeing else. And logical me knows that, that’s it it’s over he doesn’t want me and it’s time to get over it and move on. But I just can’t.
I have to see him at least 3 times a week until January next year. So I can’t just stop seeing him and communicating with him. I just feel so frustrated and anxious and horny all the time. It’s so fucked up at this point. I’ve tried googling how to get over him and have already been keeping communication minimal. But I still can’t get over him.
I know I sound really pathetic but please give me some advice! I need help!!!
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Feelings can’t be turned off.
Remain friendly and respectful until you don’t have to see him anymore. Keep your feelings to yourself and wait it out. That’s all you can do.