We were friends then got into a situationship, agreed to be honest and say if there were other people but turns out all lies. Found out about they’re sleeping with others, turns out one of others is married (not open or ENM).
Do I tell that person’s spouse?
Feels like it’s right thing to do bc I’d want to know. But very worried there might be fallout bc 1) there are young kids involved and 2) what if the spouse gets violent. Super conflicted here, Idk what to do. Do I tell or no?
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Not your place, none of your business. Walk away.
Saying a “situationship” is exclusive sounds like an oxymoron.
I would. “Not my problem” thinking is unethical imo. If I ever found myself in a situation where a partner is being unfaithful I hope to god whoever knows would have the balls to tell me.